
After suddenly finding myself single after 23 years of marriage, I became what I jokingly call a serial dater with absolutely no idea what I was doing.
My confidence was low, my self-esteem had taken a knock, and living 250 miles away from my family and friends meant I was navigating this new world largely on my own.
Like many people stepping back into dating later in life, I signed up for online dating — and quickly realised I didn’t really understand how modern dating worked.
I remember being told repeatedly that I had a “lovely smile”, but not really understanding what that meant in the strange new world of online conversations and dating profiles.
After many mistakes, plenty of learning, and a pocket full of male friends rather than a boyfriend, I became fascinated by relationships and human connection.
I decided to train as a relationship and dating coach, helping others rebuild their confidence after heartbreak, understand relationships more deeply, and feel ready to date again.
When I reached the ripe old age of 50, however, I realised something surprising — it felt as though I had suddenly dropped off the radar of the dating world.
Dating over 50 seemed to come with a completely different set of challenges.
That realisation led me to train as a matchmaker, giving clients the opportunity to meet genuine singles and find love through choice, not algorithms.
Over time, however, something else became clear.
Many singles didn’t just need matchmaking or advice.
They simply wanted a welcoming space to meet like-minded people again, without pressure or complicated dating rules.
That’s why I created Love After 50.
A place where singles over 50 can rediscover confidence, connection and curiosity about relationships again.
Understanding yourself is often the first step.
If you're curious about how you connect in relationships, you might enjoy taking the Love Language Quiz for Singles.